Thursday, 29 May 2014

The Perfect Imperfection

It is 2.24 am now and I still feel so fresh, I am having the problem to go to bed at the right time.
Mmm, right time? Are there even exist? The right timing?
Oh well…

This morning, when I was on the bus no 8 on the way to office, I recalled a handful of stuff. They were good and bittersweet memories. I closed my eyes for a second, took a deep breath and
I knew it, I miss him.
I still miss him.

I looked outside through the bus’ window. I saw nothing but a tree and bus stop. I took a deep breath again, but this time I didn’t sigh. I smiled.
I think I finally learn how to let things go.  I think I finally learn how to accept it and understood that, we just could not make it to be together.

I admitted it was hard. Yes, it is.
I flashed back to the memories when we both just knew each other. Well, it was at station 4 when I first saw you and started admiring you. It was September 2012. I forgot which date it fell, but I remembered it was September 2012.

Hi ! Nice to know you.

Started by adding you in the social network called Facebook, like your photos and …. I stopped.
I guessed this was just a crush, nothing serious. So I stopped.
Lol actually I just thought that I got no hope. LOL

*

October 2013!

It felt so surreal to meet you again at the same place. I didn’t expect to be able to meet you there. But I was super happy to see you again-real. But I tried to stay calm. Yes, I stayed super calm till no one even noticed that the reason why I was back to do part time was just to see you! Well, don’t even care about back to back shift. It was just so great to see you around!

I like to see you talking to the guests, giggling with them and once you caught me looking at you. You started to raise your right eyebrow about 15 degrees. Then you gave me the look, “what’s wrong?”
And I shifted both of my eyes to the top right, telling you, “Chill dude. I wasn’t looking at you.”
And I walked away-such a drama.

*
A tiny greenish block was the beginning of our conversation. With your arrogant looking you came to me and asked “You want to take anything from the buffet?” 

“Green tea matcha?” I replied. Didn’t even finished my sentences, then he just walked away.
Damn! How could this person be so rude?
"Don’t come to work tomorrow, Meylisa." I told myself.

I tighten my apron and I walked away too. I walked to the side station, opened up the wardrobe, took out the napkins and started to set up those empty tables.
Still mumbling about him to myself, telling myself should not think too much but stop work tomorrow onward.

He came with a dessert bowl and said “Madam.. Here your green tea matcha”
Mmm
You know if this is whatssap I will spam this blog with the blushing emoji.
BUT! I acted cool. I answered, “OH”.
He raised his right eyebrow again, signalling me, “Just like that?” and he walked away.

“Come to work tomorrow, Meylisa!” I told myself.
*

Coffee?

It will never be my drink even for once. Oh seriously, I just could not take coffee.
However, can you imagine that I made a cup of coffee for him? #hahaha
Though I knew that the taste was sick! I swear! I didn’t know the right amount of water I should pour. Yet he said, “It tastes nice”
Yes. he said it tasted nice and the next day he made coffee for himself. It was a half cup coffee.
Mmmm…. Okay.
Thank you boyfriend.

*

They were now left as memories. The Paul smith sleeves T-shirt, the clutch, the M necklace, the Clinique perfume and chubby stick.  How are you, Mr sharp nose?

*

15 may 2014. The day I celebrated my advanced 21st birthday with my Indonesia clique, I prepared my wishes way long ago. I heard people were clapping hands and shouting blew the candles! Make a wish!

I smiled, staring at my birthday cake, closed my eyes and I asked God, “I want to meet him. This will be the greatest birthday gift from you! Please make it happens God!”

*

38.9 degrees Celsius.

High fever, cough and running nose.  I rushed to my kitchen, grabbed the pink small handbag containing tonnes of medicines. I kept on searching for running nose medicines.
I found it. I found it. I found it with your name on it too.

But this time, I felt as bitter as the medicine.

Everything has changed.


*

It was February 2014.

It is your birthday month. Not sure what I should get you for your birthday. And yeah, I was having my financial crisis as dad has cut off my credit card because this ‘obedient’ daughter refused to go back to Indonesia for good. (This time he is not the reason why I insist to stay here. My dream keeps me fighting.)

I was clueless till I saw my friends were going their animation project, I then finally got an idea.

Don’t laugh!
I know I am an idiot for design and media thingy.
But I tried. With my minimum budget I had, I created a stop motion video with total of 300 hundred photos taken in the same background and height.

Guys! I swear! After 3 hours of that I got a bad back pain. Then after, editing the video and choosing the suitable song, I then realise that this video is kinda cheapo to be presented as a birthday gift. I scrolled my eyes 360 degrees. Took a deep breath! YEAH!
FOUND!

He loves soccer! FCB!

Yes, I don’t have any clue what is that, I only know that he likes no 10 FCB, and whenever he played FIFA, he was in his own world.
I opened up Line app. I joined the FCB club. Hoping that I could get the latest news about them.
And YES!
They sell their jersey at Bugis Plus!
I went to Bugis Plus and checked for the price. Mmmm…. Hahaha who says girls clothes are expensive?

I went home and texted my manager, telling him next week I would work every day! No off!
Okay! Mission accomplished!
Mr. Sharp Nose was happy with the birthday gift <3
YEAH!!

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13 days ago, at this timing, I was still awake. It was not because I was feeling fresh like today but it was because I kept hoping that the time would have stop. I was so selfish that I just want the time to stop. He was just beside me.

6 hours was enough to convince me that his feeling to me was once real. No question regarding the past or future. I don’t care. Just he and I for those 6 hours, I didn’t ask anything about the past or future. He gave me an unforgettable gift. I really love them.

6am. Time was up. I kissed him on the cheek. I walked away slowly. Somehow I feel that he won’t want to meet me again.
I think he knows I still love him.

*

The guy who never treats me like a princess, the guy who never pours me with sweet-talking, the worst yet the best boyfriend.

Yea. He wins my heart. But I didn’t win his.

I never thought that I could love someone till this much. I easily have a crush on guys but I hardly said I’m in love.

This time, I have fell in love without me knowing it, till there is a day I wake up, loving him so much.

As the time passes, I understood that we can’t force love or feeling.

Sometimes, letting go doesn’t mean giving up. But it is brave and strong enough to let your loved one to find someone whom can complete them.

You can’t erase your feeling or the memories. Why should you erase them? Don't you love them?Then why haven’t you kept them?


And him. Yes. He will always be in the special place in my heart.


PS : Who never done any stupid/ silly thing for love?

Saturday, 24 May 2014

A Rusted Diamond

I am back.
Felt so tired after a long day, not because of work.
I am just so sick of my life.
How long should this keep on going?
I forgot how it felt to be heart broken or hurt.
Numb.

Just hopeless and helpless with the surroundings, I am not giving up.
I … I don’t know.
Just feel so freaking sad and down every night, can I only have morning and afternoon every day?
I hate when it comes to night, I hate when I reach home and it is empty.
I hate it. I hate myself for not being able to express my emotion when I am sad.

How long more should this been kept on dragging?
I even lose the mood to attend my own graduation ceremony. Imagining my friends come with the parents, bought a banquet for them. Well, I don’t like flowers. But maybe this time will be different.

I keep considering and asking myself over and over again. Should I go?
Should I?

Damn. I don’t know. 5 % vs 95 %.

I have stopped blogging for a couple of weeks- trying to find something to get off my attention and start to have a new routine.
However, I think this is the only place where I can express my sadness and my emo.
I can type out all the thoughts in my mind. Yes I can-without expecting my laptop to respond.

No one will ever understand how hurt I am. No one will ever know how broken I am right now.
Even I am trying my best to understand myself. And that’s freaking terrible.
Cause I can’t even really understand myself.

What I knew and noticed was I always keep myself stay up late in the office till everyone left.
I hate going back home.

What’ wrong with dreams? What’s wrong with chasing after dreams?
What’s wrong with being a fighter for my own life? What’s wrong with being responsible over my own life?
What’s wrong with being tough and believing that I could make it happen?
What’s wrong with having faith in my dream, my faith, and my goals?

I am young. I might not know and might be clueless over the path where I am going to.
But I want to explore, I want to learn, I want to gain a tonne of experience as much as I could.

Life is short yet there are so many things I want to do. I don’t know when God will call me.
Therefore, I want to make full use of my life. Learn, appreciate, forgive and forget.

Wish me luck, my dear laptop! Hahaha
Life is so tough and thanks God you are here to keep me accompany.
Hahaa..

Oh well… it’s okay. Everything will be alright.
 Thank you for being a good listener and a great shoulder to cry on my dear laptop.
Yes. Everything will be alright.
Let the time heal this pain.
Yeah. Everything will be alright.

Stay focus, keep believing and be tough.

 #ME

PS : Behind a loud laughter, there is a teardrop.