Recently, have been encountering some annoying questions
by my surrounding. Like seriously. The same questions threw over and over
again.
“Why are you still single?”
“Got boyfriend already?”
“Saturday, Sunday go where?”
And some people keep mentioning about the disadvantages
of staying at home on Sunday.
Oh seriously, don’t you know Sunday is my “nua” day where
I can get my first shower and first meal at 7pm.
Read books, watch youtube or try new recipe which I just
found on youtube.
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“How’s your Saturday?”
Well, first thing. What’s wrong with Saturday? Have
anyone ever come out with the rule that Saturday is a must go out day?
Seriously. It is just a day, weekend,where you can sleep later
than usual and relax.
And the word “relax” is up to you to define it.
Mmm… some people say my Saturday kind of boring. Duh… it’s
my life and I think “fun” is kind of subjective.
Your fun might not be my fun,
and my fun might be your fun.
Why can’t people understand this principle?
Respect
dudes.
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Poly life has just ended about 2 months ago. Now, it is
really hard to meet up with my M1. The guys are going to Ns one by one,
working, family day. Mmm.. it really hard to meet up and come out with a proper
hangout.
Ended up, we skype each other- Hahaha.
I really miss my poly moments. Two dollars nuggets, 10
items for my yong tau foo, playing cards in the lecture hall, laugh out loud in
the library.. mmm actually is everywhere. :P
HAHAHA!
Talking about my poly life. I was graduated from NYP on
the 29th May 2014.
The previous post I mentioned that I was not excited at
all since my parents were not coming over for my graduation. I even planned not
to go for my own graduation. Then,…
On the 29th may 2014, actually my M1 and I were
supposed to meet at 7.30 at the auditorium.
And, haizh.. I woke up at 7.15am! Damn!
I have no time to prepare myself.
I threw in my makeup stuff to my bag, grab my white
blouse and I wear SHORT! L
No time for bathe. Just washed my face and brushed my
teeth. That short and quick moves I ever did in my life. Surprisingly, no one
notice it! LOL!
*POWER*
Reached auditorium, suddenly there was a person shouted my
name.
“Hey! Meylisa! How are you? Anyway congratulation ya!” an
old man walked towards me and we shook hands.
I was stunned. I smiled, trying to calm down to breath in
more oxygen. I forgot this lecturer’s name. Year one lecturer. What is his name?
I kept asking myself. Damn it!
Why is he still remember my name? L
Oh well,, I think naughty and loud student really leave a remark on the teachers/lecturers.
And I was one of them. :P
On that day, I was totally SUPER EMO as friends keep
asking me, where was my parents? And one by one saying bye to me cause they
going off with the family. I know I should not be mad. Ya.. and I replied back “Oh!!
I was about to meet lecturers!”
LOL!! Meet lecturers? L
But I really did! I went to Block S and spent 2 hours talking to any lecturer that
ever thought me, sharing about life and dream- the talkative me. :P
However, one thing that I will never forget and I really
touched was my boss and colleagues came over to my graduation. Huhuhu. That was
really sweet! <3
I told myself, it is okay if my parents are not able to
make it this time.
I promise myself that I am gonna have more proud moments,
and this time, they only miss one. J
Believe and make it happen! J
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Relationship?
Not sure about this and never have enough confidence on
this. Hahaha.
Totally a nuts on this "shit/ship".
Meylisa.. meylisa.
Why are you still single?
I am like.. mmm there is nothing wrong being a single.
Right?
I mean why we must rush into something that we are not
sure with?
And I think being single is better rather than having a
fake relationship or being into a relationship where you aren’t happy about it
or you actually feel like a single.
And I don’t understand why people have this thought that
you are not a happy person if you don’t have a partner.
??
Society.
Another issues.
Long distance relationship- ldr
I think there is nothing wrong being into a long distance
relationship as long as two parties can trust each other.
With the advanced technologies, I think there shouldn’t be
any issues.
You can skype, line, whatssap. Mmmm… yaa.. many more.
Hahaha.
Saved up money to buy tickets to meet your loved one. I
think it is really sweet and meaningful.
Isn’t it? :)
Recently, one of my friend shared with me. She is bored
with her long distance relationship. So she cheated her boyfriend.
And I’m like. WHATTT!!!
I also having a long distance relationship with my
family.
There is time where they are not there for me when I need them and
I’m sure there is also a time when I am not able to be
there when they need me.
We talked through BBM, we skyped.
No more how tired I am, one two lines messages or short phone calls to just ask
"Have you eaten your dinner? How's your day?"
Efforts that count!
And never across my mind to find new parents because they
not there for me when I need them.
Lol.. seriously.
My this friend is another ass who gonna ruin LDR market.
Tsk. Tsk.
Bluh.And cheating? Totally no respect to these kind of
people.
And me?
I don’t know. I thought I might not be interested in any
guy for a while. Like you know scared of being hurt, played and cheated.
I don’t know.
There is this guy who recently catches my eyes.
Haizh. I really
don’t know why.
But I think, cause when we talked, he never try to flirt
with me like how others guys do.
You know. That ‘wow ‘factor. mmmmm... I don't know how to express these.
I don’t know even know how to start a conversation with him.
Never chase guy before, an idiot in this issues. Hahaha.
Tsk. I really don’t know. Hahaha
Just let it flows and don’t expect too much? Because
somehow somewhere I think I got friend zoned! HAHAHAA
Meylisa.. Meylisa.
There are two issues I have:
1.
Can’t really read hints.
2.
Always got the thought of getting friend zoned.
Meylisa.. meylisa..
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Dream.
This word have been part of me since I was 6 years old.
Since 6 years old, I always see myself as a full time dreamer and figher!
I dream big everyday! I believe nothing is ever impossible if we really want to fight for it.
I portrait life as a battle not a game.
Each day, I want to learn more, learn new things, be a better version of me.
Meylisa 21.2, meylisa 21.2.2 , and etc.
I only live once.
So I will really really treasure my life.
Opportunities will never always knock my door.
But I could choose to create it instead of waiting for it. <3
15 more minutes gonna be officially 8.5 years of me
staying in Singapore.
Never thought that I will be staying so long in Singapore
and even plan to settle down here.
Have a family and my own company here.
Hopefully, mmm no, I believe it will happen one day J
Got this plan on my head.
Getting married by the age of 27 years old. :P
Settled down with my IT career and open up a new side
business- catering.
So that I can be the full time housewife and part time
business woman.
Great mum to my kids and good wife to my husband. (My greatest dream since I was 17 years old)
Hhahaha ;P
Sometime, when I can’t sleep.
Will start to imagine how I am gonna build my family.
mmm.. starts from preparing breakfast every morning for
husband and kids.
Hahaha.
Then also have prepare a lunch box for my kids.
Send them off to school then I drive to my workplace to
monitor the work flow.
Late afternoon, reach home and start to prepare dinner.
Do housework. I prefer no maid at home. :P
After dinner, will be having a sharing session with kids
and husband.
mmmm… I guess, this will be great and sweet.
And this is what I am aiming for.
A great (mum + wife) then followed by an inspiring business woman! <3
AMEN AMEN ! HAHAHAA!
